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Jun 8, 2020

Widower Steve Jacobs tells us why—after 9 years since his spouse Sheila passed away—why he still attends widowed grief group dinners.

Tips to avoid gossipy neighbors. Why Tampons confuse dads. Asking your late-spouse for advice. Friends with benefits, and tons more.

This is part 2 of 3. If you haven’t listened to part 1, please do so for Steve’s Once-Upon-a-Time story.


Bullet Points

  • Nine Years Since
  • How to Avoid Gossipy Neighbors
  • Goofy Things People Say
  • You Can’t Know How I Feel
  • Can You Expand Your Empathy?
  • Your Loss is Your Loss
  • Does It All Suck?
  • Raising Teenage Daughters Without Mom
  • Tampon Challenged Fathers
  • Homemade Zoo
  • Two Daughters Getting Married
  • Lesson for a Potential Son-In-Law
  • No Bed, No Bang?
  • Are You This Kind of Listener?
  • Comfort Them with Material Things
  • When Should You Use the “D” Word?
  • Secret Dates
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Grief. Intimacy. Guilt.

Thanks for listening.

Join us for part 3. Steve tells us, after his spouse died, what his first real kiss with another woman was like.

How an average widower considers turning gay.

Fix your relationships now. How to grow a pair before it’s too late.

More dating escapades and why I called Steve judgmental. Am I judgmental too?   Join us again in part 3.

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